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Dec. 30th, 2009


[info]rockstarjoker4

boring as crap

  • 18:41 hopeful quote from my father: "50 is the new 69" #
  • 19:39 leaving Menifee with a cupboard full of food and a tummy full of sushi. thanks @cebred ! #
  • 20:31 i wish i 'd grown up in the 1950's, then all i'd have to worry about would be nuclear winter. #
  • 21:11 the 101 smells like burnt skunk rubber right now. gross. #
  • 12:39 fucking internet... how the hell am i supposed to waste my time if i cant get online to be bored? #
  • 16:32 every god damned traffic light in northridge is out.. WHY DO I LIVE IN THE VALLEY? #
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[info]sm00bs

Christmas hodge podge



Christmas is over. The parents are gone. I have to work for the next seven days starting tomorrow. Hello 2010.

B has the rest of this week off with Sophie. I think they'll have fun, although I have no idea what they'll do to keep themselves occupied. They might Wii a bit. Sophie's been doing much better with the Wii remote lately and we picked up a few new games (Super Mario Bros.Wii, Hasbro Family Game Night 2, and Sports Resort). Perhaps he'll take her to a Chuck E. store and let her run wild. Maybe he'll even bring her up to the office so she can see where I work.

I feel like I'm getting sick. My throat is all crappy now and I'm worried it will turn into something worse.

The weather here has been crazy. It snowed (blizzard like conditions at some points) Christmas Eve and then again for a little yesterday. We actually still have snow on the ground in places. This is pretty unusual. It's actually snowed three times this month!

B borrowed a 47" LCD TV for the vacation and I don't want it to go back. It makes my 32" tube set look like crap, and it used to be one of the better TVs on the market. What the crap? Of course, now we want something new. We're going to be good and wait for a bit, though. We have a list of large purchases we want to make for the house, and this year we're getting a new dishwasher and microwave. I'm not sure what next year will bring. Upgrading the TV won't be just a TV, but will have to include an upgrade on the Media Center PC and possibly the cable package. We also want to replace the washer/dryer, refrigerator, and stove/oven, but we're not sure if we want to convert to gas on anything or if we want to try and figure a way to separate the range and oven to have a double oven separate or if we just want a double oven/range combo. I think we're switching to all stainless steel. I want to get everything at one time so it's all matchy, and there are discounts we can get by doing that, but we don't really have the money to do that. Of course, there's still the shed we haven't purchased yet...

Sophie was pretty good for Christmas, even without her nap. She was a bit of a nut near the end of the day, but all in all, it was a good day for her. She was very excited to receive her chef dress up outfit from Santa and she loved the guitar from Nana and Papa. She was very grateful for all of her gifts, actually, but the last one of the day was the best. We were at B's parents doing gifts that night, and everything else had already been passed out. Sophie saw one gift left behind the tree and asked her grandmother if it was for her. Shirley asked her why she would think that and she said, "Because it's big!" I got a chuckle out of that, but cringed at the same time. She made up for it when she opened the gift. She had asked for this silly Black and Decker tool set from Target (lots of pieces and not expensive at all) and continuously asked for this thing until Christmas. She told B Christmas morning that Santa brought it for her, and he let her know that sometimes Santa doesn't always bring us what we ask for. She didn't say a word about it all day long, but when she opened the last gift at his parents' house, she was beyond excited. The first words out of her mouth were, "This is what I really wanted!" and the look on her face was just priceless. I just love that kid and how appreciative she is.

We both made it to Sophie's Christmas pageant this year (thankfully, since we both missed it last year). It was pretty cute, and she did a great job. I'm glad I got to see it. I'm so proud of her for so many reasons. :)

I've loved having these last few days to spend a little extra time with her. We took her to Barnes and Noble since my sister had gotten her a book and a gift card and she wanted to spend the card. We asked her on the way out what she wanted to get at the bookstore and she was pretty specific about wanting a pink book with a fairy and a pink cupcake on it. We looked at toys and other books and there were things she was interested in but nothing she wanted to use the card to get. I kept asking her if she wanted me to hold something for her when she said she liked something, but she would always return a pretty firm NO. We looked at the children's cookbooks for a bit and found a fairy cupcake book that I held onto just in case. She liked it okay but wasn't excited about it or anything. Then we walked over by the main area of picture books and I pointed out a few books. My mom pointed out the book Purplelicious and Sophie was mildly interested, but then she saw the Pinkalicious book and exclaimed that was the book she was looking for. We'd had a family night at B&N a few months back (not sure how many, but probably four or five months now) and she had read that book once with B that night, and apparently it was one of those books that just stuck with her. She bought that book with her card (and a tiny bit of help from us) and was so excited to be carrying out her own book that she had paid for. We also picked up L is for Lone Star (Anna sent her M is for Mitten, so it was the perfect compliment to the gift) and the fairy cupcake cookbook as well (she uses it to cook in her kitchen now, very cute), and another book similar to A Stranger in the Woods (can't recall the name, but it's all nature photography).

Sophie worked on a little scrapbook with my mom while they were here. She also had Nana read her lots of books and sleep in her room a few nights. She played Candyland and I Spy and showed Nana how to play Mario Party 8 a bit. She shared her Phineas and Ferb shows with Nana and Papa and was generally quite well behaved while they were here. It was a good visit for all of us.

I know this is all over the place. I'm not feeling very organized today. I need to start taking Christmas decorations down, but am entirely unmotivated to do so. I will probably do that next week when I'm off work. I'll take Sophie to the pottery glazing place then, too.

Work is nuts. I have a feeling it will be for some time now. Hopefully I'm wrong. I'm tired of working two weekends a month, though, and two weeks with seven straight days in a row. That's really rather stinky. Meh. I'm glad I still love my job. It makes things a little better, at least.

And now I'm off to find B... Even though we've both been off work the past week, I feel like I've barely seen him since we've been so busy. Nuts, I know...

[info]girlyunderwear

The death of Monogamy

Why Men Cheat: A Year of Philandering

My take has always been that given the chance, most guys would cheat. Unlike Tiger Woods, most guys don't have hot chicks flinging themselves at him 24/7, so it's easier for them to not cheat because the temptation is not there. Why were people so shocked? Dude was probably a huge nerd growing up playing golf all day and now big tits are all up in his face. Course he's gonna cheat.

The expectation that everyone be monogamous needs to change. Most people fucking suck at it. It takes off the societal pressure to get married and stay with one person for the rest of your life. I know there is a biological component to cheating, but infidelity in most marriages aren't always due to the guy just wanting to spread his seed. Due to various circumstances one partner decides they no longer want sex. Or they have kids. Kids will destroy a sex life pretty damn quick. There are only 2 ways to deal with that. 1) Let the other partner sleep with other people, or get their rocks off some other way. 2) Break up. It's not really fair to marry someone, then later decide to never have sex with them again. And refusing to acknowledge or care about the fact that their sexual needs are not being met. They are no longer obligated to stay with you, sorry. You either work out something to stay together so the kids can have a decent upbringing or you part ways. The thing is, I think some people would be ok with their partner sleeping with others as a solution, it's just not condoned so it's never on the table. They are concerned about how their open relationship will be viewed by others. People still see marriage as the end of all things fun, so it's no wonder they can't stay in them.

The central problem here is we fail at communicating our expectations and needs because monogamy is the rule. I'm a huge fan of monogamy, I'm good at it, it's the way I want to live my life. Doesn't mean I think everyone has to. I suppose in this age of rapid change, the incentive of staying with one partner for the rest of your life isn't as strong. Maybe when you're 50 and realize you don't want to be alone, it kicks in. Would we be healthier if we gave in to our biological instincts? Apparently some people are able to remain together even when one or both have cheated, so fidelity is not always the strongest bond in a marriage. We need to find a way to get our sexual needs met while maintaining healthy relationships. For the sake of the children.

On a side note: Do black men cheat more than everyone else? I don't think there are any other genres of music that talks about cheating more than Hip Hop/RNB. Maybe white people just don't wanna sing/rap about their scandals.

Dec. 29th, 2009


[info]blindhurt

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I really should update this more, but I slack.
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[info]rockstarjoker4

boring as crap

  • 17:26 the way i see it, if you're gonna build a time machine why not do it with some quintessential 80's style? #
  • 20:03 there are decapitated pandas in wii fit. why is the wii soccer team hurling pandas at me? #
  • 12:25 the best thing about self diagnosis is self medication :) #
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[info]laurawxx

annual 2009 end of year survey

So, I'm not around here as much as I used to be mostly for the fact
that I have no computer at home and LJ is blocked at work. It's a
bitch to type on my phone because I type faster than the touch screen
does... but whatev. here's my annual survey.

1.What did you do in 2009 that you'd never done before? attended and
stuck to a Kickboxing class, moved in and promptly back out of a
house, took professional pictures with a significant other.

2.Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for
next year? I'm pretty sure I never make any New Years' resolutions
other than to not be a fatass. Still haven't succeeded with this.
Even if I am kickboxing my ass off...

3. Did anyone close to you give birth? A good friend of mine, Amber
gave birth to her baby boy Beckham a couple of weeks ago. I'm sure my
LJ homey majikgrove gave birth recently too... or she's just
pregnant forever like an elephant.

4.Did anyone close to you die? My Papa died June 13. One of the most
important men in my whole life. Josh's grandpa died in November.

5.What countries did you visit? NONE. Sad. Need passport stat.

6.What would you like to have in 2010 that you acked in 2009? More
money! more patience. more discipline...

7.What date from 2009 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
May 10, the day I found out LSU Ryan was actually married with a child
the entire time we'd been together. (I guess I hadn't told LJ that,
but yeah. I found out and then drank 3 bottles of wine and my friend
Brooke called me to tell me he was at the bar. I went in, took 3 shots
of something, slammed it down on the bar and yelled at him in front of
the entire bar. I called him a "fucking married pussy" and it was
pretty hilarious. He cried. I yelled at him for 3 hours and told him
to never contact me ever again unless it was to file child support on
himself because his marriage was going to fail miserably inevitably
because I was sure I wasn't the first, or the last girl for him to
cheat with. He cried some more and talked about the Lord. I told him
to eat a dick.)

June 13- my grandfather passed away, same day as Josh and I's
anniversary and my Dad's birthday.

September 4- my big birthday party.

8.What was your biggest achievement of the year? Keeping it together
when I really didn't think I could.

9.What was your biggest failure? moving twice in order to save money.
Still have zero in my savings account.

10.Did you suffer illness or injury? flu, allergies/sinus crap an
upper respiratory infection or two.

11.What was the best thing you bought? my phone; hands down.

12.Whose behavior merited celebration? Josh. JKL. Jaime. Danielle.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? LSU Ryan, my grandmother

14.Where did most of your money go? insufficient funds fees, house
rent, restaraunts

15.What events did you get really, really excited about? my birthday
party, Vegas with the krew, 90s party, Kelly Clarkson with the girls
(Kaelyn and Destiny)

16.What song will always remind you of 2009? stupid mother fucking
Lady Gaga. My BFF Taylor Swift.

17.Compared to this time last year, are you:
a. thinner or fatter?
probably fatter. very sensitive subject in my household.
b. happier or sadder?
happier I suppose.
c.richer or poorer?
probably richer.

18.What do you wish you'd done more of?I wish I'd been more committed
in the month of December to my gym routine, spent more time with my
Papa, been more patient with Josh.

19.What do you wish you'd done less of? procrastinating, eating,
eating, eating.

20.How did you spend Christmas? Christmas Eve at my grandma's/my
mom's; Christmas day at my Dad's house. Did Christmas with his family
the next Sunday.

21.Who did you spend the most time on the phone with? Probably JKL or
my Dad. what a race.

22.Did you fall in love in 2009? more or less.

24. What was your favorite TV program? Gilmore Girls, Brothers and
Sisters, Biggest Loser, Dating in the Dark

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
just LSU Ryan.

26. What was the best book you read? I'm reading the Chelsea Handler
book right now and it's pretty damn funny.

27. What was your greatest musica discovery or discovery or
rediscovery? clouds are ghosts, one of my BFF's wishpocket
bands in Austin.

28. What did you want and get? more peace.

29. What did you want and not get? a raise

30. What were your favorite films of this year? the blind side.

31.What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 28. I
worked and then that night ate spaghetti because we were broke because
I only get paid once a month, on the first. Romantic.

32. What one thing would have made your year more satisfying? more
money, better discipline, my Papa not getting sick, my grandma not
being batshit crazy.

33. How would you describe your persona fashion concept in 2009?
pretty much the same as usual.

34. What kept you sane? Josh, wine, JKL, my dad.

35. Which celebrity/ public figure did you fancy the most/least? I
pretty much want to punch Perez Hilton in his fat vagina, but really
that's about it.

36. What political issue stirred you the most? race, mostly. poverty,
food stamps, child support, etc. Welcome to working for the public
sector....

37. Whom did you miss? JKL, Jaime, Nico, Josh Crump, Jason Flitcraft,
I'm sure others that I'm not listing that I'll feel like an asshole
for later...

38. Who were the best new people you met? I can't even remember people
I just met this year. Sad.

39. Tell us a valuable life esson you learned in 2009: Try not to
dwell on the past.

40. What are your plans for 2010? strive to be healthier, save money,
save money, save money. Take a real trip with Josh. Be nicer to
Josh. Try to learn some sort of domestic trait other than arts &
crafts. Budget, budget, budget....

Dec. 28th, 2009


[info]rockstarjoker4

boring as crap

  • 22:16 Saw Sherlock Holmes today... on the plus side, Arclight Theaters makes me feel like a princess (even when I can't afford it) #
  • 10:00 Damn it... if its 10 in LA, where is it 5? #
  • 10:21 @jamiewatson Lol. Most definitely NOT :P #
  • 10:24 Some one's cat is whining outside my door. It freaked me the fuck out. #
  • 10:45 @DeadAxS i didn't know you were hiding! #
  • 11:09 My apartment looks like a thirteen year old boys room... but what will my excuse for the mess be when I take my brother home? #
  • 11:13 @DeadAxS look @ me, so off the pulse I didn't know I was supposed 2 hate twitter! And I didn't realize we were what you'd consider RLF #
  • 11:45 @DeadAxS a facebook suggestion is how actually how I found U. I figured following your twitter would b more interesting #
  • 12:01 I'm not saying beer isn't great... but I prefer vodka for breakfast. If only I could convince myself to get up and get some! #
  • 12:11 @DeadAxS sounds like fun. I have to censor on FB, so I pretty much say whatever comes to mind on twitter #
  • 12:25 Got a text this morning from @gigglingmuse- "Don't freak out the water's gonna be off" So what do I do when I figure out the water's off? #
  • 13:33 @DeadAxS Whatcha even talking about? that's the sexy face! #
  • 13:35 @DeadAxS OMG.. that's NOT what I said! :P #
  • 13:37 My brother has just realized that Mila Kunis is hot. Awesome. :) #
  • 13:41 @DeadAxS You must be looking at the wrong girl. #
  • 13:49 @DeadAxS you're taking it out of context. we're not talking about her being in good movies, we're talking about her being hot! #
  • 15:12 I'm tired of being poor and bored. I'm ready to be rich and bored #
  • 16:18 Dear Internet: you haven't been entertaining me at all today. #
  • 16:21 @jamiewatson lol. we should start a club for bored with the internet! PS: conspiracy theories are AWESOME!!! #
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Dec. 27th, 2009


[info]rockstarjoker4

boring as crap

  • 18:07 all things are better with mustaches! #
  • 20:10 will some one please invent a machine that doesnt allow me out of the house if i look too shitty? #
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Vampire Killers


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